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When you hear the words “erotic art” the first thing that might come to mind are explicit depictions of naked bodies entwined, phallic and/or labial organs thrusting, prodding, and fisting in various degrees of extremity, with bodily fluids strewn about the depicted scene in showings of conquered ecstasy… … and …
Jun 23, 2022
With the streets transformed so that all of Dorothy’s friends can follow the rainbow brick road to the land of snogs, it could come as a shock to those less invested that Pride started as a protest and that the parade is actually a march. Even community members get swept …
Jun 13, 2022
When you think of penis pumps, you likely think of Austin Powers, who famously brought them to mainstream culture. However, they are a real thing that people can, and in many circumstances, should use. It all depends on what you’re hoping to achieve from the penis pump. (I’m letting you know now, it’s not …
Mar 23, 2022
Welcome back to #AssMeAnything, the place where all butt-related questions and queries are tackled with sex-positivity and shame-free advice. My name is Alexander Cheves — I write about sex, kink, porn, and all sorts of delightful things. Without further ado, let’s dive into this month’s questions. Hi, I’m into electro estim …
Mar 10, 2022
Ah, erotic spanking – the wonderful sensation of combining pleasure and just the right amount of pain. Ready to master the art of spanking during sex? Come right this way!
Feb 28, 2022
I recently separated from my partner of four years, and it was hard. We had a loving and amicable breakup — a mutual decoupling, an agreement to remain friends — but I still got sad and took a few weeks off from butt play. Now I’m getting back into my toys …
Feb 10, 2022
Wondering if butt sex is gay sex? Need an anal-gasm explainer? Join Alexander Cheves on this edition of ASS Me Anything as we move up from the rear of the class.
Jan 10, 2022
What is comfort sex? How do I have it? Sex educator Dirty Lola gives you a complete 101 on sex that will leave you feeling happy and satisfied!
Dec 28, 2021
Welcome back to #AssMeAnything. I am Alexander Cheves, a sex writer, butt demon, and author of the new book My Love Is a Beast: Confessions — a graphic sex memoir about my journey into happy sluthood. This is a safe space to ask questions on all things anal. Keep reading for …
Dec 16, 2021
The holidays are here, and what better present is there than the gift of unadulterated pleasure? That’s why you absolutely should give everyone you know a sex toy. Your partner? Obviously. Yourself? Duh. Your parents? Yes, even them! Whether we like to admit it or not, our parents (likely) do …
Dec 07, 2021
There are two great physical pleasures in the world: food and sex. So, naturally, people want to combine them. Whipped cream, blueberries, chocolate, milk, even pasta sauce—you can add any food or drink into your sex life.
Nov 16, 2021
Howdy and welcome back to #AssMeAnything! This is a place to send questions on all things anal. My name is Alexander Cheves. I’m a sex writer and educator. As I write, my butt is nicely sore from a really fun ass session two nights ago — the great feeling of …
Nov 09, 2021
A Beginner’s Guide to Anal Sex
