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Anal play begins by getting into the right frame of mind - Learn our 5 principles to great anal sex.
When it comes to anal play, it’s essential that your body, heart, and mind are on the same page. Stress, worry, and pressure can play a big part, so here are 5 best anal play practices to help you get in the right frame of mind. Don’t Get Goal Orientated …
How you breathe can massively impact anal intercourse
One of the golden rules of pleasurable anal play is remembering to breathe and to relax, and relax some more.
6 rules to get started with anal play
Pleasurable anal play isn’t about stretching or forcing anything open. It’s about the receiver being able to relax open. Here are some tips to make that easy.
The key to have great anal sex is learning to relax
Pleasurable anal play is all about relaxation. Fortunately, relaxation isn’t difficult to do, though it does take practice. Taking long, slow, deep breaths can help a lot. If you’re doing it with a partner, it can help if they’re breathing along with you. The more relaxed the giver is, the …
Skin around the anus isn't self-lubricating so make sure to apply plenty of lube during anal play
In addition to relaxing the muscles of the anus, you also need to take care of the skin. The skin that covers the anal muscles is as sensitive as your lips (the ones on your face, for those folks with lips in other places).
Stress is ubiquitous but learning to relax can massively improve your chances of having great anal sex
Your body doesn’t care whether the stress is because you’ve been stuck in traffic, you had a bad day at work, or you’re nervous about anal play hurting (especially if you’ve had uncomfortable or painful experiences with it before). The worry and anxiety can make the anus tighten up. That …
Learning about the anal anatomy can be a huge benefit prior to performing anal play
Anal anatomy may not be the most glamorous topic but it’s well worth knowing your way around.
Visit the expert advice section on our website for a complete guide on how to have safe and pleasurable anal sex.
The b-Vibe website features Expert Advice, also known as Anal Play 101, with tips on how to get started with anal play. With any form of anal play, the key to success is starting slow. Let’s begin with the anal anatomy. The anal sphincter is strong yet delicate. Start gently, …
Best butt plug practices for beginners and advanced lovers of anal play. Learn these 4 recommended steps by certified sex experts.
When it comes to pleasurable anal plug play, the key is to start slow and steady. Here’s our complete guide on how to use an anal plug — also known as a butt plug.

A Beginner’s Guide to Anal Sex

Looking to spice up your anal sex positions, or perhaps you’re curious to find out the best position for first time anal? We’ve got your back! Here’s our most updated guide on the best anal sex positions.
The ultimate guide to anal sex for women
Social norms and expectations are a constant subject of change and evolution. Sexual stigma and what we find to be an acceptable and healthy part of our “intimate diet” are things that, luckily, get re-written. This brings us to anal play for women and the notion that enjoying it makes …
How to Properly Prep for Anal
Anal hygiene is one of the most common concerns that people have about anal play. Fortunately, it isn’t difficult to manage. In fact, these 5 simple steps are all you need to know on how to prep for anal.
Prostate play 101: A beginners guide to prostate pleasure
Hold up! It looks like you’ve come across our first-ever article on P-spot stimulation. It’s been almost a decade since we first launched and we’ve just created the best possible guide on prostate play — click on the link or head over to our Anal Play Advice to check it …
Anal pleasure for straight men
One of the great things about anal play is that folks of any gender and orientation can enjoy it, not just gay men. The techniques are the same, but a lot of guys express fear about receiving anal pleasure. That’s unfortunate because it means that they’re missing out on some …
Anal sex should never hurt, providing that you follow these simple tips on pleasurable anal play.
Why does anal sex hurt? Can I use a numbing cream during anal play? We asked certified sex educators to answer all your questions on how to make anal sex less painful. While anal play can be a lot of fun, it’s not always comfortable. Unfortunately, there’s an urban legend …
Learn how to talk to your partner or wife about having anal sex
Once you’ve decided that you want to try anal play, you need to figure out how to tell your wife, husband, or partner. If they’ve already said that they’re into it, that conversation will probably be pretty easy. But sometimes, having the anal talk can work better with a little …
How to choose the best lube for anal play
The right anal lube can make booty play feel amazing. But with so many lubes to choose from, it can be a bit overwhelming. Here’s our complete guide on how to choose the best lube for anal play.
Learn how to properly use a butt plug for the first time
A butt plug (also known as an anal plug) is a great way to add some backdoor pleasure to your bedroom fun. Learn why this anal play product is becoming everyone’s favorite sex toy. What is a butt plug? Unlike dildos, which are designed to slide in and out, butt …
Master 8 anal foreplay techniques on how to give an anal massge
Anal massage – an essential form of anal foreplay – can be a great way to arouse your partner and get them in the mood for anal intercourse. Follow our soft-core illustrations and treat your partner with these 8 sensual anal massaging techniques.